tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32387511744705252372011-11-28T11:03:43.178+11:00Jaihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01453543062827490932noreply@blogger.comBlogger131100tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3238751174470525237.post-1947454514730273142011-09-16T06:41:00.003+10:002011-11-01T16:23:07.642+11:00

I think forgiveness is actually a lot easier than most people realize. We just don't really think about it because when something bad is done to us we focus on how we feel about it and fall into the trap of finding someone to blame for how we feel. This builds on my blog about owning our emotions and my blog about solving conflict with the ones you love in those blogs I describe how damaging it

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Today I'm really excited because the idea for a business I had years ago finally has a face! And I don't mean the baby :) This idea was born from my desire to offer what I can to the world. I had a vision of the human world as a complex of patterns representing our desires, understanding and wisdom. This pattern is the interplay between culture, progress and wisdom. It is an evolving pattern

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Be inspired by bad news instead of depressed When we hear about something bad happening in the world how does that make us feel? It seems every week there is a tragedy - earthquake or tsunami, greed, children starving - there are a lot of terrible things happening in the world every day. It can be pretty overwhelming if you really think about it. A lot of people stop tuning into the news or

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In the west it is very common and accepted to blame other people on how WE feel. For example someone cuts us off in traffic we say he made us angry which justifies us yelling abuse at him and honking our horn (or worse). But when we treat our emotions as something that we have no control over, that isn't a part of who we are, that other people have total control over. Then we become weak and

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To control an optimist sell him on a false idea and take all his energy and resources. To control a pessimist tell him how dangerous it is to do all the things you don't want him to do. Are you an optimist or pessimist ? Both forms of control involve manipulating someones perception. In Australia we have a lot of what's called shock ads created by the government to stop people doing things, for

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Working in IT has a lot of up sides, there is always new and interesting challenges that can be pretty fun to solve. Finishing a product is always exciting. Getting into a solid state of productivity is also a lot of fun, getting that rush of flow going and losing yourself in it. But there are a number of negative aspects that I don't think many people are fully aware of. Sure most people know

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I think most of the resources in the West are wasted because we don't understand true happiness. That is why Debug Reality is focused on helping to spread the understanding of it. Our culture has been largely shaped by consumerism and advertising and these things often play on our deeper desire to find happiness. We have been lied to and misdirected for the sake of companies making a profit. Even

Jaihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01453543062827490932noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3238751174470525237.post-17931934534387536282010-02-24T23:12:00.004+11:002011-09-15T16:55:02.753+10:00

How sad is it when two people who obviously care about each other fight and both end up getting hurt. In the worst cases a fight over something relatively meaningless can blow up into a feud that lasts a life time.Why does this happen? I think there are a number of factors involved in these kind of conflicts and learning how to manage them will increase the richness and and depth of all our

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Well I've started coding my first application for Debug Reality and it feels good to be doing something concrete finally. It is an application that supports my previous blog post about equality. I'm planning on making a tool that allows communities and groups to work together equally. I'm hoping it will help encourage people to be more involved in things and feel more responsibility towards

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Equality is something each one of us grasps as we mature and get to the point we realise we are not the center of the universe. In that moment we understand subconsciously that we are all equal, we are all the same at some basic level. Unfortunately this realisation is often overshadowed by later conditioning and prejudice. Equality between people is pretty much accepted as a concept these days

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The first step to becoming happy is to understand that we can become happy and that we deserve it, not just individually but as a race. There are two kinds of people in the world, those that understand this concept, which usually means anyone brought up in a loving family and those that don't. There is a term for people that don't, self hatred. And if you think about it.....  it makes sense, for

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So my goal for Debug Reality is to create IT products that enhance peoples well being and unlock their potential. The Key is to understand happiness and unhappiness. When we understand these deeply we can predict the impact certain features and technologies can have on them. For example if you know that a lot of unhappiness in the west is caused by people chasing some mythical dream of romance

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I've spent most of my life sorting my shit out. I'm not perfect and I'll be the first to admit it but I arrived at a place in my life where I no longer need to focus on myself. I'm happy. Now I want to work out how to best help other people reach this point. But I'm not writing a book, not in this day and age and I'm not going to do this alone. I'm going to start a business with a deep mission

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